LOVE

it is better to fall in love because its very hard to learn to love and some times they are people who you could never learn to love, you like them but it's just not there.learning to love could take a life time of hard work and by then their's not much time left to enjoy it. And plus if you are haveing to learn to love your mate that seems to imply that it was a forced marige and that both parities might not have had a say.